We often say to our kids, "did that boy or girl hurt your feelings?" It sounds like nice thought in an effort to validate how our kids are feeling and help them be nice people. Host Lindsay Aerts explains why technically you can't hurt anyone feelings because their feelings are being created by their own thinking, as are yours. Now that doesn't mean we teach our kids to go out an be mean, but Lindsay talks with Jody Moore, a life coach who teaches a model for breaking down thoughts versus emotions, and why that's so important in teaching our kids how to cope with circumstances in life. The Mom Show on KSL is hosted by Lindsay Aerts. KSL News Radio is part of Bonneville Media and based in Salt Lake City, Utah. Don’t forget to review and subscribe to the The Mom Show podcast on iTunes. Or follow The Mom Show on Instagram @kslmomshow or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/kslmoms.